Advice is free because it's worthless?

I genuinely love to help anybody and everybody who chooses a career in music but sometimes I don't think it's worth it. I've been involved in the music industry for nearly 20 years. I've done pubs, clubs, Wembley, Top Of The Pops, TV, radio, worked with Multi Grammy winners, produced 3 artists and got all 3 artists signed as well as having a publishing deal as a writer. I've had highs and lows in this business but I wouldn't have it any other way. I feel I have a little idea of what I'm talking about but I'm not an expert as I am still learning new skills every day.

Below is correspondence with someone who auditioned for The X Factor, I would like to say it's uncommon but sadly, it is not. For some reason people don't really want my advice they would rather I lied to them to keep the illusion alive.

I received this:

hi steve how are u u are a great singer just wanted to no ive got a audition for the x factor have u got eny advice i write some off my own songs one is call stay here tonight i love singin my self

My reply:

Dear XXXXXXXX,

My first bit of advice is that you write your letters using proper punctuation, spelling and grammar. Your letter is littered with errors and I counted over 20 mistakes in an email of less than 50 words which I found an incredible feat.

Please take this with the best intentions that are meant. FIRST IMPRESSIONS COUNT. Simon and the others will judge you when you walk in a room so be confident and smile. Be happy within yourself and look like you know what you are about...

and remember - opinions are like arse holes, everybody has one. The above is just mine.

I wish you all the best with your song writing.

Steve

I then got this:

hi steve i fourght u were a nice bloke only really u are a arsehole i fourght your muic was really good why do u down people like this im no a posh writer up yours mate ill thro your album in the bin you tosser

I replied again:

Dear XXXXXXX

I really meant it to be constructive. In order to succeed you need to impress people. I took the time to reply, I gave you valuable advice in your best interest - not mine. You wanted my advice and now you don't like it, you blame me for your short comings.

I'm sorry you have taken offense to my comments, but you needed to be told. I really didn't mean to offend - just open your eyes to the importance of first impressions. I'm not posh - just a little bit educated and I find it shocking that you have no basic literary skills.

All the best

Steve

If you do want my advice, please write to me at info@stevebrookstein.com, I will be constructive but will point out where you need to work on your singing.

Best Wishes with your career.